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Sarah McCraw Crow's avatar

Love this essay, Zina. Beautiful braiding.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you so much, Sarah! ❤️

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Steve Knepper's avatar

This is beautiful, Zina. Thank you for sharing it.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you for reading it, Steve.

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Ann Kennedy Smith's avatar

What a beautiful post, Zina. So sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds lovely.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

@Ann Kennedy Smith, thank you. When he died I had the great task of eulogizing him as well. Writing about him has been mixed of joy and grief. It is such an honor to have you as a reader, and it is always a blessing when I get to see your name in comments.

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<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

So moving and eloquent! Loss, as I know you know, challenges the writer. And yet we find a way as you have so beautifully done here, particularly for your father, his memory and his life and his way too early death.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you so much, @<Mary L. Tabor>. writing about grief is difficult work, and so I’m inspired by your writing to push through. ❤️ Z

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Abigail's avatar

The way you weave memory, theology, philosophy, and poetry together is one of my favorite types of memoir. The longing and hope are both here. Thank you, Zina.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you, Abigail! My mind is a weird place that moves from one theme to another. It takes a while for me to get cohesion in an essay. I appreciate your kind words so much!

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Jeff Cook-Coyle's avatar

It is absolutely brilliant. I am in tears.

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Melanie Bettinelli's avatar

Beautiful memoir writing. May he rest in peace.

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you. Every year I try to write about him. Writing can be a form of love.

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Melanie Bettinelli's avatar

Indeed, a form of love. And a way to keep memory alive as well.

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